Most guys learn to jerk off before reaching their teenage years and figure they’ve perfected the art almost instantly. Hence, the vast majority of men make little to no effort to improve their technique, shy of experimenting with different types of slippery liquids.
Unfortunately, this has a tendency to result in almost all men adopting the same approach to masturbation. That was a somewhat frenzied and hurried experience, with the aim of rushing it to a conclusion as quickly as possible.
All of this comes down to the fact that men learn to masturbate at a time in life when they’ve constantly at risk of getting caught. We all know someone who stakes claim to having been caught by their parents – the shame of which nobody else on the face of the earth can truly understand.
Later in life, we enjoy much greater freedom to do what we want, when we want, and in any way, we want to do it. But as the habits of our teenage years are well and truly set in stone, we still masturbate like it’s a race.
Changing Things Up for Improved Orgasms
Masturbation isn’t just fun. It can also be good for your health. Orgasms give the cardiovascular system a boost, trigger the release of pleasure hormones, and offer the kind of head-to-toe stress release nothing else on earth comes close to.
Hence, it stands to reason that if masturbation is good for you, more is always better. The same can also be said for orgasms – if you’ve going to have them, you may as well have explosively fantastic ones every time.
In which case, what can you do to make every orgasm you have the best orgasm ever? Whether masturbating in a live sex call with a webcam girl or getting busy in the real world, what are the secrets behind truly explosive male orgasms?
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Experiment with Different Positions
Each and every position you experiment with puts a different amount of pressure on different muscle groups. This alone can radically transform the way an orgasm feels and the overall strength of the sensation. Rather than lying flat on your back, try standing up. If you normally jerk off sitting in a chair, try lying on your side. All sexual positions (and masturbation positions) come with their own unique benefits, calling for plenty of experimentation to discover what works for you.
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Exercise Before Masturbation or Sex
Sex and masturbation naturally lead to the production and release of pleasure hormones, including dopamine and adrenalin. The higher the levels of these hormones in your bloodstream, the better you feel. Meanwhile, vigorous exercise also heightens the release of these and other hormones. In this case, exercising prior to masturbation or sex can and will boost your enjoyment of the whole experience. Combined with the benefits of better blood flow to all the right places, getting active before getting active paves the way for something truly epic.
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Stimulate the Perineum
The area between the penis and the anus is exceptionally sensitive and warrants exploring. Applying pressure to this area during sex/masturbation and particularly up on reaching orgasm can feel quite fantastic. The same can also be said for using a vibrator to stimulate this sweet spot or (better yet) getting your partner to do so on your behalf.
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Use a Fleshlight
The problem with conventional masturbation is that it simply does not provide a particularly realistic replication of actual sex. By contrast, Fleshlights (and similar tools from the other brands) have been meticulously engineered over the course of many years to feel almost identical to the real thing. They can be used for solo masturbation or brought into the bedroom for additional couple fun. Once you’ve experienced one for yourself, you’ll never look at your own humble hands the same way again.
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Take Your Time
Last up, the reason so many men find themselves dissatisfied with their orgasms is their tendency to rush things to a conclusion. All they want to do is cum, so they make it happen as fast as they possibly can. And in doing so, take little to no pleasure out of the experience running up to the main event. To learn to enjoy the experience (not just the outcome) is to learn how to truly enjoy sex and masturbation. In particular, master the art of edging, and you’ll soon be taking more pleasure in the sex you have than ever before.
